Updated 2023
It's difficult to put into words what my military kids mean to me, and I'm sure you can relate if you have your own children. While they didn't choose this life and don't get asked if they'd like to move again or deal with separations from their parent, they can still somehow manage to be an example to us of coping and adapting.
One of the things that has always surprised me about my kids facing a new military life challenge is how they can manage to create fun and adventure in the midst of it.
I've written before about lessons I've learned from my own military kids, so as I'm thinking of ways to honor and celebrate military kids this month during the "Month of the Military Child," I've turned to some of our blogging friends for inspiration and ideas.
3 Ways to Celebrate Military Kids
During the month of April, join up with other military families across the world and wear purple in honor of our military kids. From the DoDEA website:
"This is the time for DoDEA Communities to wear purple to show support and thank military children for their strength and sacrifices. Purple symbolizes the combined colors of all branches of the military-Army green, Coast Guard blue, Air Force blue, Marine red, and Navy blue.
Follow along or share a photo of your local celebrations on the DoDEA Facebook page.
New mom Janelle from Come Fly With Us reminds us that the term brat doesn't have to be derogatory. To her, the phrase military brat stands for Boldness, Responsibility, Adaptability, and Tolerance.
Jennifer Lambert from Raising Servant Leaders says that these Third Culture Kids learn to weather transitions and fit in quickly.
Let's not forget our neighbors and allies to the north, where Canada is also celebrating their military kids this month. She is Fierce reminds us there's no such thing as an "average military kid' in Canadian Military Kids in April.
Have you heard of the "Hoffman Squadron," America's first military quintuplets? They give new meaning to the phrase military brats with their "quintuplets + 2"! Follow along with their adventures on their Facebook page.
And Kristin Smith encourages us to focus on the positive in her piece, This Is Truth: Military Life Won't Break Your Kids:
"The discussion within the military community is often so focused on the negative impacts in a well-intended effort to educate and attract more resources that I sometimes wonder if we do as much harm as good. For each of the challenges they face, our kids are also presented with wonderful opportunities...
My husband regularly remarks on our son’s lack of interest in superheroes, but it doesn’t surprise me in the least. Every day he sees what service looks like when it is lived. We have family friends who have been injured and killed in action. We bring meals or leave gifts to someone struggling with a deployment. He watches cars pull to the side of the road as soldiers render honors to the flag during Reveille and Retreat. He is growing up with gaggle of quasi-aunts and uncles who help to celebrate birthdays, clean the house before homecomings and share dinners over Skype when our loved ones are away. Before he finishes elementary school, he has learned the most important lesson it took me years as a military spouse to absorb: that relationships – marriage, friendship, professional – take work and investment to sustain. If he takes only that away from our time as a military family, I’m confident he will come out ahead."
Meg Flanagan of Meg Flanagan Education Solutions suggests 5 Ways to Celebrate MilKids in April, and reminds us of the fact that military kids may be flying under the radar where you live and are usually in the minority.
If you're a civilian and wondering how you can show your support for the military kids in your community, Julie from Soldier's Wife, Crazy Life offers some practical suggestions in 5 Ways Your Community Can Support Military Kids, as well as these thoughts:
"If the community is aware of what this month is about, they would be more likely to help celebrate military kids and help them feel special. This will continue on through the rest of the year and can make for a more supportive community year round.
Most Americans appreciate what military kids have given up and what their lives have been like because they have a mom or dad in the military. Having a community work to celebrate them helps the children feel welcomed in the city and town they are currently living."
And, finally, take a look at this video created by Humans on the Homefront, with an absolutely precious narration from a 6-year-old military kid (Note: tissue alert!).