5 Do's and Don'ts for Hosting Holiday Parties

Birthday parties. Game day gatherings. Family get-togethers. The charming layout and tranquil ambience of your house have made it the hottest spot around. With the holidays quickly approaching, you may find yourself hosting several social events.

No need to invite a level of stress! One of the best tips for hosting an event is going through the details ahead of time. If you’re fond of making lists, start tracking what you’ll need to do and when you’ll need to do it.

While building your party planning checklist, include a few “Do’s and Don’ts” for entertaining this holiday season.

1. Don’t let household odors remind your guests that you have pets. 

Do: Welcome your guests with a delightful fragrance. 

A fresh citrus, calming vanilla, or subtle floral scent can transform the atmosphere as soon as they step through the door.

To keep things simple and safe:

• Light scented candles strategically placed around your home.
• Simmer fragrant wax tarts on the stove or in a wax warmer.
• Diffuse essential oils for a subtle but inviting aroma that lingers without being overwhelming.

2. Don’t make guests fetch beverages from the rickety spare fridge in the garage. 

Do: Set up a well-stocked beverage station that's easy to access. 

Whether you’re serving cocktails or mocktails, chill a variety of drinks in an accessible cooler or serving tub. It’s not just about drinks; it’s about giving your guests the freedom to serve themselves and mingle.

Items to include in your beverage station:

• A bottle opener for easy access to beer and soda.
• Koozies to keep their drinks cold.
• Cups for all kinds of beverages, from water to wine.
• Garnishes like fresh mint sprigs, slices of lemon and lime, or olives for martinis.

By having drinks prepped and ready to go, guests will have something to sip while they wait for the food to arrive, making it a great way to encourage mingling from the start. 

3. Don’t shoo guests out of the kitchen.

Do: Create natural gathering spots throughout your home.

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Whether or not they lend a helping hand, party goers are often drawn to the kitchen as the heart of the home. Instead of fighting this, set up other spaces where people can comfortably gather and chat.

Ideas for perfect hangout spots:

• The living areas, with comfy seating and a cozy vibe.
• The patio, weather permitting, with blankets for extra warmth.
• Close to the television where guests can enjoy a game or chat during downtime.

Appeal to your guests with appetizers or snacks in these areas. A cozy candlelit setting and bite-sized snacks placed just out of reach of the kitchen can help steer conversations away from the food prep zone. The layout of your home can work for you, directing guests toward where they can comfortably chat and make connections.

4. Don’t go beyond your comfort zone and try that complicated gourmet recipe from Pinterest.

Do: Stick with what you know and make it easy on yourself.

The holiday season doesn’t need to be a culinary challenge. Trust your instincts and choose a few tried-and-true dishes everyone will enjoy. Focus on serving crowd-pleasing snacks and simple appetizers.

Some party staples to include: 

• Cheese and crackers or a charcuterie board (always a classic).
• Fresh fruit and veggie platters for a healthy option.
• Chips and dip for easy comfort food.
• Nuts and dried fruits for a crunchy snack.

Have everything prepped and ready to go, so you can set out food before or as guests arrive. Want to make it even easier? Take advantage of ready-made items from your local grocer or deli.

For a thoughtful touch, ask guests about food allergies ahead of time and offer some accommodating options.

5. Don't stress over dirty dishes.

Do: Empty the dishwasher and clear the sink and surrounding countertops of stray items before guests arrive.