There’s a lot more behind a military landlord/tenant relationship than simply having a good or bad landlord or tenant. And I think that it’s safe to say that we can get ourselves into trouble when we overgeneralize the situation. There are likely reasons why your landlord comes across as overbearing or your tenant appears to be unresponsive.
While understanding both sides of the landlord/tenant relationship might not make the irritations go away entirely, it can help you understand where the other is coming from and approach the relationship less emotionally and more logically.
So let’s take a look at both sides of the equation and hear a few testimonies from your fellow military landlords and tenants to get a well-rounded perspective.
The Good, the Bad, & the Ugly of Military Landlord/Tenant Relationships
The Landlord
Military landlords bring a huge financial investment to the table. Maybe they purchased a home near their duty station, and now they have orders to PCS. They’ve chosen to rent out the property, either because it was a bad time to sell, they wanted an additional source of income, or because they hope one day to return to it, so they’re entrusting their home to someone else temporarily.
They expect the tenant to live in the property and care for it in the same manner they did themselves. The problem is, not everyone does. What’s even more difficult is the fact that they likely live hundreds, maybe even thousands, of miles from the property, which means that they have even less control over the property than the average civilian landlord. Sure, they can hire a property manager to be present. But even then, they’re still forced to trust someone else to maintain the home.
Then there’s turnover. Even though they’re military and understand the frequent PCS moves, military landlords have to deal with finding a new renter when their military tenant gets new orders. They have to make repairs or updates on the property, get current photos, create an online listing, and then find a new tenant. With the help of a property manager or not, this process can be stressful when there’s a mortgage payment calling their name in addition to their current housing expenses.
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Stories from Military Landlords
And you can’t blame them if they seem a little overbearing when you hear stories like:
“My husband and I have a few rentals. Trying to self-manage them was entirely too stressful. It’s better with a property manager, but we still have crazy moments. Like when our tenant put the dishwasher out to the curb because ‘it was broken’ instead of calling the maintenance man.” —Hillary
Or this one:
“We rented out a house we owned at a former duty station for five years. Most of the tenants were fine. However, the final one had below average credit. She fell behind on rent payments, was almost evicted, and left us with thousands of dollars in damage (from an illegal pet) that was not covered by the security deposit! It was an ongoing nightmare.” —Lizann Lightfoot
She went on to say,
“We used a property management company to rent out our stateside house while we were stationed overseas. They handled the legal paperwork and maintenance. As long as things went well, they were fine. But when a hurricane hit the town and caused some water damage inside from a leaking roof, it took many phone calls and emails before they finally sent someone out to fix it. Then we learned that they painted over the interior damage but didn't actually repair the roof! It took months of follow-up before they completed the roof repairs.”
And then there’s this jaw-dropping story:
“I had a terrible property manager who I believe lied about running background checks, ran off good potential tenants, and then accepted a fraudulent application. Turns out the fraudulent tenant abetted a wanted fugitive in our rental property. The K-9 SWAT team called me one day and said they’d been staking out our property for a month and were going to shut down incoming/outgoing traffic to our neighborhood to raid the house. It was pure insanity.” — Kaycee
But it’s not all bad. Real estate can be a great financial investment. And with good tenants, the right property manager, or lots of experience themselves, landlords can turn a profit. It’s those positives that help many military landlords overlook the frustrations and keep their investment in the real estate industry.
The Tenant
For whatever reason, whether their PCS orders are short-term, the location is less than ideal, or they’re simply not ready to buy a home, military families seek temporary housing by renting someone else’s home.
And here’s what you need to know. Tenants won’t feel as strongly toward your home as you do. It’s nearly impossible to make an emotional connection when it isn’t their financial investment or within their power to replace the brass fixtures and tear out the carpet.
But don’t mistake a lack of ownership as disrespect. Good tenants won’t leave water leaks unmentioned, neglect stains in the carpet, or tear up the yard. They will respect the property and leave it in better condition than it was in when they signed the lease.
Stories from Military Renters
As long-time military renters, we’ve had some great landlords and some that we’d never recommend—even to the woman who cut us off in traffic yesterday.
If you’ve rented, you know that it can be challenging to create privacy as a tenant. You live in a home where someone else (who you probably don’t know very well) has a key. Even though the state laws and lease protect you from unannounced entry, that fear is often in the back of tenants’ minds.
Take me, for example. I hopped off my online writers’ meeting one morning (early) to find men walking around in my fenced-in backyard. Once I realized that our landlord was among them, I raced back there to find out what was going on. He said that there was some confusion and that painters were there to paint the property. But it wasn’t his confusion that made my blood boil. It was the fact that even though there was miscommunication, my landlord let himself, along with five other men, onto the property instead of knocking on the door first.
That same landlord failed to abide by the HOA rules in the community, which resulted in a restriction of access to the neighborhood pool—something that was listed in the home advertisement and influenced our decision to rent that particular home.
Though I could easily fill this whole section from my experience alone, I brought in a few other stories from military renters.
Take this renter horror story for example:
“It was a lovely little house amidst an idyllic Midwestern neighborhood. However, the previous tenants were facing eviction and not in a good mood. From room to room, the departing renters left a considerable mess. Honestly, I’m not sure the overwhelming herbal smell would even appeal to Snoop Dogg. Also, a sizable crimson red stain on the beige carpet made me worry that this address had recently been tied to a murder scene. Thankfully, the apologetic landlord was quick to assist with a thorough interior clean-up, and our move to this spot went smoothly.
In the weeks that followed, I began to notice things were out of place around the house. Random lights were left on. Toilet paper rolls were dwindling. Cans of soda were missing from the ‘fridge. Then, I came home early from work one day to find the car of the previous renter in the driveway. Walking inside, I could heard the whir of the washer and the noise of the dryer. Sure enough, relaxing on the back deck, sipping a can of my Diet Coke, was the previously evicted tenant. The guy stands up from my patio chair and says, “I think my white clothes are just about done.” Seriously? I can’t make this stuff up. Turns out this dude had been keying back into the house via the garage door code and making himself at home!” —Mary Eckberg
This hair-pulling situation:
“We rented from an absentee landlord in Utah who had his son repair our leaking basement bathroom. There was sheet rock dust all over, and it became a health problem for us. No rent reduction or apology. Had a freak basement flood and he accused us of not using the nonexistent sump pump or preventing it somehow. He pitched a fit over my children's chalk drawings in the driveway and demanded the lawn be absolutely manicured the night before we PCS’d to Germany. All the lawn equipment had been shipped or stored and we had to borrow stuff and it was already dark out. He just didn't want to return our deposit and got crazy.” —Jennifer Lambert
Or this encounter:
“We gave notice that we would not be renewing our lease and the homeowner became SO angry. So much so that the property manager called me and explained that the homeowner was looking to ‘make money from our final home inspection’. Luckily we had a very detailed check-in damage list and had a good relationship with the property manager. She ensured we were not charged unjustly for anything upon move out (we were not charged for anything!).” —Brianna
With as many challenges as there are with renting a home at a duty station, there are a ton of perks. Renters don't have the financial burden of maintaining the home or the responsibility to find a new tenant when they move.
Tips for Strengthening Your Landlord/Tenant Relationship
So what do we do with this information? We learn from it. Based on the stories shared above, we can walk away with a few lessons to think about.
For the landlord.
Always check the credit score of your prospective tenants. Whether you choose to hire a property manager or you’re handling the property yourself, set a minimum credit score requirement to ensure that prospective tenants have a history of financial responsibility.
Use the right property manager. Your property manager can make or break your experience as a landlord. Without a professional you can trust, your hefty financial investment assumes greater risk. Make sure you’ve got someone on your side who will maintain the home to your standards by choosing responsible tenants and communicating with you honestly about the property.
Ask for receipts. If you’ve offered to reimburse the tenant for a repair they’ll make themselves, get a copy of the receipt.
The same goes for property managers. Even if they have a fund to draw from, you’ll want to establish accountability by requiring receipts and documentation of repairs and maintenance. This not only ensures that your money is being spent appropriately, but also that the work is being completed.
For the tenant.
Request new locks and keys. Avoid Mary’s situation above and request that the landlord provide new locks and keys and reset any keyless entry points. No one wants the unwanted surprise of previous tenants showing up at the property, much less entering.
Get it in writing. If the landlord promised any updates like paint, carpet cleaning, or the repair of appliances as a condition of your lease, get it in writing.
Conduct a thorough walk-through. As much as a landlord should want a walk-through, tenants do, too. Writing down every imperfection you notice prior to move-in will help protect you from unwarranted charges upon move out.
Lastly, both parties need to establish expectations. What’s expected of the tenant if an appliance breaks or if the landlord needs to make a repair? How often should you check in?
Try to establish trust by talking about your communication styles. Some landlords like a lot of communication, while others don’t want to be reached out to unless something is wrong.
As you or your tenant prepare to make another PCS move, use these tips to establish a healthy landlord/tenant relationship. And if you encounter frustrations, keep these stories in mind to maintain a bigger perspective and help you brush off the little irritants.
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